Tag Archives: self-actualization

33: Same Heartache Different Person? How to Break Free of Old Love Patterns



Have you felt that the same broken record in your dating life? If you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships and experiencing the same heartbreaks with every person, we share solutions on how to break free and change your attraction to a person who is ready and willing for love.

EPISODE 33: Same Heartache, Different Person? How to Be Free of Old Love Patterns

We explain the animus (Inner Adam) and anima (Inner Eve) archetypes and how you relate to the opposite sex unconsciously. They represent the divine urge to connect and natural drive for love and relationships. This perfect image is clouded by your personal history and experience with your parents, men or women in your life. You learned how to relate to these humans and it impacts how you relate in your adult relationships.

Identify the pattern with men or women and that shows you how your Inner Adam is currently set up. You can change this archetype in your unconscious through visualizations and dreams and then change your relationships with men or women in a dramatic way.

Find out how you can free your mind so these ideas don’t stop you from opening up to a great love relationship.

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31: Answering The 3 Big Questions in Life



Some people live their lives in quiet desperation, while others take the road less traveled and ask the big questions in life. In this episode we get into a deep philosophical conversation about the meaning of life, purpose and the three big questions everyone needs to answer:

  1. What do I do about Love?
  2. What do I do about Money?
  3. What do I do about God?

EPISODE 31: ANSWERING THE 3 BIG QUESTIONS IN LIFE

When you do personal development work, it may feel as though everyone else has it all figured out. They have the relationship you want, the money or success you want, the dream career, etc. You may even think that everyone is more enlightened than you. We discuss how no one gets out of life without answering these questions and how you can begin to answer them for yourself. Do you have the love you want? Are you happy with your career? Do you know your life’s purpose? What do you believe about your relationship to God or the universe? We probably awaken more questions than answers but the discussion is definitely one that brings everything into focus and makes you think.

Why take the path to answer these in a deep way? Is the journey to a greater life filled with more problems? We believe that finding these answers in ourselves is the greatest journey.

Quote by Rilke:

If we only arrange our life in accordance with the principle which tells us that we must always trust in the difficult, then what now appears to us as the most alien will become our most intimate and trusted experience. How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage.

– Rainer Marie Rilke


25- Are you clairvoyant in love and relationships?



Do you have that sixth sense when it comes to dating and relating? Have you experienced premonitions that ultimately came true? Do you wish you could trust in your inner wisdom more so that you can avoid dead-end relationships or heartache?

EPISODE 25: Are you clairvoyant in love and relationships?

In this episode we explain what clairvoyance is and how you can tell if you are using intuition or if you are just responding to old fears in relationships.

Understand the interconnectedness between all of us and how on a deep level you are already communicating with your ideal partner. Based on Jung’s theory of the collective unconscious and the latest research in quantum physics, you can see that psychic ability is something we all have naturally and it isn’t so woo-woo.

Get some insight on how to increase your awareness of this incredible mind tool to help guide your relationships and your life.

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Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness



Do you feel stuck in creating love and success? Maybe you hit a wall or had a few setbacks and have doubts and fears about getting what you want. In this episode, we are going to review the essentials in life to have flow, happiness and be aligned with our higher purpose. Based on research of Seligman (who started the Positive Psychology movement), we discuss PERMA model. In order to have well-being in our life, we need five things:

  1. Positive Emotions
  2. Engagement
  3. Relationships
  4. Meaning
  5. Accomplishment

Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness

Learn how you can become more optimistic when going toward your goals, build healthier and closer relationships with others, and find yourself connected with what you are doing in heart and soul. How to get into the flow so you can feel happier and have the love and life you want. We discuss the health benefits of being happy and having meaningful relationships.

The key is well-being. We can accomplish things in life and gain material success or get into a committed relationship, but are they making us feel better or is the experience causing stress and unhappiness.

We review a list of questions for you to answer to see if you are in the flow.

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Ep 19 – Creating vs the Fixing Mindset in Love and Life



Are you looking for problems to solve in your life and blaming yourself when things don’t go your way? In personal development, you can often get caught up in the fixing mentality and lost in healing yourself. Listen to this episode to learn how to face adversity in your dating and relationships (and life in general) in a more creative way.

If you feel exhausted from self-help, this is a great conversation on how to approach creating your life in a new way that feels good. Understand how the ego is always looking for problems and takes everything personally when “bad things happen to good people.” Get in touch with the divine force within to see obstacles and the way to create more in our life.

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Ep 18: Women Disrupting the Workplace – How does success influence relationships with men?



Episode 18: Women Disrupting the Workplace and Relationships

Women are evolving and becoming leaders in the business world. What does it mean about the changing gender roles? How does this affect your ability to attract a healthy relationship? Can women be extremely successful and still be attractive to men? This is an especially timely topic with the latest harassment allegations by prominent media personalities such as Roger Ailes, Harvey Weinstein, congressmen and other high-ranking people in government. Can women and men work together and play together like adults?

Join us for the lively conversation about women coming to power and how just might be the ones who change the world. From a Jungian perspective, how can women be more influential and affluent in their communities by doing the inner work?

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Ep. 17 – Being Spiritual in a Material World



EPISODE 17: BEING SPIRITUAL IN A MATERIAL WORLD

Do you have a great morning meditation and then feel all that bliss is lost when you are thrust into the material world? This podcast today is for you If you ever wondered how to be spiritual in the regular, typical life. When you go to work and interact with the rest of the people in the world, you may tend to fall into old patterns. We discuss how we wear masks to help us relate to others but that mask is not an authentic part of who we really are. We forget that other part of us – our spiritual center – when we believe we are the mask.

Explore if you are in a shadow career and not doing what your soul wants you to express in the world. Learn how you can connect more to your spiritual self through your everyday life so you can feel more grounded and less anxiety as you go through your day.

Watch this presentation on VIDEO on Youtube here https://youtu.be/X9fQFdLVXe4

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Ep. 13: Purpose of Dreams and Hidden Messages for Love



Did you dream about your ex last night or did you experience a wedding celebration? Do you know what it means when you dream of being in a dirty bathroom, show up naked at work or feel like you are drowning in water? These are all common dreams that have a deeper meaning for you and your personal development. Your dreams have a hidden message from your unconscious mind showing you exactly what is stopping you from having the love you want. Your dreams can also be a source of inspiration, creativity, and intuition as a powerful guide to your relationship life.

Dreams are also a way to connect to your inner wisdom, experience the true nature and higher consciousness. What a journey you are about to embark on when you learn to interpret your dreams. This information is based on Jungian Dreamwork and eastern wisdom.

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Ep. 10: 3 Steps to Attaining Higher Love



Are you looking for love purely for survival and avoid being alone or are you seeking a higher love? In this episode, we discuss Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and how people approach relationships from lower needs and desires to cultivating a more evolved, conscious relationship.

The three levels of self-actualization are:

  1. Biological Needs
  2. Social Needs
  3. Need for Self-Actualization

We discuss how each person has the potential to become their true self and find a love who matches your highest ideal. Enjoy the show!

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