Tag Archives: relationships and dating

31: Answering The 3 Big Questions in Life



Some people live their lives in quiet desperation, while others take the road less traveled and ask the big questions in life. In this episode we get into a deep philosophical conversation about the meaning of life, purpose and the three big questions everyone needs to answer:

  1. What do I do about Love?
  2. What do I do about Money?
  3. What do I do about God?

EPISODE 31: ANSWERING THE 3 BIG QUESTIONS IN LIFE

When you do personal development work, it may feel as though everyone else has it all figured out. They have the relationship you want, the money or success you want, the dream career, etc. You may even think that everyone is more enlightened than you. We discuss how no one gets out of life without answering these questions and how you can begin to answer them for yourself. Do you have the love you want? Are you happy with your career? Do you know your life’s purpose? What do you believe about your relationship to God or the universe? We probably awaken more questions than answers but the discussion is definitely one that brings everything into focus and makes you think.

Why take the path to answer these in a deep way? Is the journey to a greater life filled with more problems? We believe that finding these answers in ourselves is the greatest journey.

Quote by Rilke:

If we only arrange our life in accordance with the principle which tells us that we must always trust in the difficult, then what now appears to us as the most alien will become our most intimate and trusted experience. How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage.

– Rainer Marie Rilke


29: Understanding Emotional Triggers in Relationships



We are all emotional beings. Our feelings fluctuate through the day, every day like a carousel. Sometimes the feelings are good, sometimes numb and then there are those times when the emotions seem to burst through our logic and take us down a path to crazy town. These emotional triggers are not often played out externally, but more like an internal combustion leading to obsessive thinking, more stress and the desire to protect, defend or get even with the person who made the offense.

EPISODE 29: UNDERSTANDING EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS IN RELATIONSHIPS

In this episode, we discuss eight (8) common ego assumptions that are playing a role in the emotional trigger and allowing it to fester in your mind and body. They are:

  1. Taking things personally – It is my fault or they meant to hurt me
  2. Polarized Thinking – Everything is black or white – no compromise
  3. Mind Reading – Assuming what others are thinking about you or assuming they should know what you are thinking
  4. Labeling a Person (or Group) based on one action – “He did this to me or to someone else, so he’s a terrible person”
  5. Overgeneralization – “All Men/Women are Non-Commital”
  6. Catastrophizing – “I will always be single” or “It will always be like this”
  7. Minimizing – “It isn’t so bad” – tolerating bad behavior or settling for less
  8. Should Statements – “I should date” or “I should be nicer” or “I should not waste money”

We give you a quick exercise to work with these assumptions to free your mind from their trappings and get clear on what is really true. Your ego will use one or a combination of these assumptions when you are triggered. Learn your go-to story and be empowered to drop the story and see the world through new eyes.

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26-Can Meditation Improve Your Love Life?



Do you have a hard time meditating or finding time to meditate? Did you know that meditation can lead to more peace of mind and empathy in relationships? In this episode we talk about what meditation is, the benefits of meditation and how it can improve your dating and love life relationships.

Episode 26: Can Meditation Improve Your Love Life?

If you are the type who ruminates over decisions in dating, why a person didn’t call you back or if they will ask you out again and wish you could just stop your mind from telling you negative stories, this is the episode for you. Meditation can help you be more compassionate to yourself, regulate your emotions better so you feel less anxiety and more joy. Having a clear mind instead of noisy mind on dates allows you to be more present and connected to your potential partner. We discuss the latest research from Harvard University on meditation and its affect on your mind and health and discuss how these influence your relationship life so you can attract the love of your life and not be obsessing about it along the way.

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25- Are you clairvoyant in love and relationships?



Do you have that sixth sense when it comes to dating and relating? Have you experienced premonitions that ultimately came true? Do you wish you could trust in your inner wisdom more so that you can avoid dead-end relationships or heartache?

EPISODE 25: Are you clairvoyant in love and relationships?

In this episode we explain what clairvoyance is and how you can tell if you are using intuition or if you are just responding to old fears in relationships.

Understand the interconnectedness between all of us and how on a deep level you are already communicating with your ideal partner. Based on Jung’s theory of the collective unconscious and the latest research in quantum physics, you can see that psychic ability is something we all have naturally and it isn’t so woo-woo.

Get some insight on how to increase your awareness of this incredible mind tool to help guide your relationships and your life.

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How the Right Relationship Can Make You Rich – Episode 24



What if finding the right person would lead you to more wealth? Do you want an equal partner who inspires your dreams and a relationship that can foster growth and expansion of your full self-expression? Do you want to align your purpose with a higher relationship?

EPISODE 24: HOW THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP CAN MAKE YOU RICH

In this episode, we explain how you can create the ultimate “power couple” relationship to grow together, play together and get wealthy together. Understand why it is important to find the right match so you can fully reach your dreams and be happy and fulfilled.

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22: Psychology of Online Dating



Have you tried dating online without success? Do you find it emotionally-challenging to put yourself out there and fear rejection? In this episode, we talk about the psychology of online dating. If you are tired of dating tips and want to take a deep dive into your psyche to discover how to shift your results to find love, this is the show for you –

Episode 22: The Psychology of Online Dating.

We discuss the expectations that you bring to online dating and the energy you have when you are interacting with the website or app and how they affect your results. Learn ways to shift your mindset and understand yourself so you aren’t falling back into the same old patterns. There is a deeper psychology based on Carl Jung’s work and the concept of projection that can explain why you are not finding the right one. Understand how your ego is choosing your dates without your conscious knowledge and how to wake up and make conscious choices for true love.

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Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness



Do you feel stuck in creating love and success? Maybe you hit a wall or had a few setbacks and have doubts and fears about getting what you want. In this episode, we are going to review the essentials in life to have flow, happiness and be aligned with our higher purpose. Based on research of Seligman (who started the Positive Psychology movement), we discuss PERMA model. In order to have well-being in our life, we need five things:

  1. Positive Emotions
  2. Engagement
  3. Relationships
  4. Meaning
  5. Accomplishment

Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness

Learn how you can become more optimistic when going toward your goals, build healthier and closer relationships with others, and find yourself connected with what you are doing in heart and soul. How to get into the flow so you can feel happier and have the love and life you want. We discuss the health benefits of being happy and having meaningful relationships.

The key is well-being. We can accomplish things in life and gain material success or get into a committed relationship, but are they making us feel better or is the experience causing stress and unhappiness.

We review a list of questions for you to answer to see if you are in the flow.

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Ep 19 – Creating vs the Fixing Mindset in Love and Life



Are you looking for problems to solve in your life and blaming yourself when things don’t go your way? In personal development, you can often get caught up in the fixing mentality and lost in healing yourself. Listen to this episode to learn how to face adversity in your dating and relationships (and life in general) in a more creative way.

If you feel exhausted from self-help, this is a great conversation on how to approach creating your life in a new way that feels good. Understand how the ego is always looking for problems and takes everything personally when “bad things happen to good people.” Get in touch with the divine force within to see obstacles and the way to create more in our life.

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Ep 16: Spiritual Compatibility in Relationships



Are you looking for someone who is a spiritual partner but having a hard time finding someone with the same beliefs as you? Many women complain at our events about the lack of men attending who do personal development. Do you constantly meet men that are not on your “spiritual level” and wish you could find someone you can learn from instead of being the teacher all the time?

If you want to have a complete relationship, listen to this episode where we discuss the difference between social compatibility and spiritual compatibility. Discover how you can attract your soulmate relationship or make your current relationship more soulful and connected on a deeper level.

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Ep. 15 – Get Your Love Life Back on Track



Have you fallen off the love train? You are not getting any response online or getting the wrong responses from men or women who are just not the right type for you. Maybe you are finding attractive people and feel hopeful only to be disappointed when they ghost you or mention they just aren’t ready to commit?

Why is this happening and how can you get on the love train for a lasting commitment? In this episode, we talk about the power of coaching and how whether you do it in a group or one-on-one can help you get your love life back on track. Learn about the different types of dating and relationships coaches and what solution is right for you.

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