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Ep 19 – Creating vs the Fixing Mindset in Love and Life



Are you looking for problems to solve in your life and blaming yourself when things don’t go your way? In personal development, you can often get caught up in the fixing mentality and lost in healing yourself. Listen to this episode to learn how to face adversity in your dating and relationships (and life in general) in a more creative way.

If you feel exhausted from self-help, this is a great conversation on how to approach creating your life in a new way that feels good. Understand how the ego is always looking for problems and takes everything personally when “bad things happen to good people.” Get in touch with the divine force within to see obstacles and the way to create more in our life.

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2: Projection in Dating and Relationships



You’ve heard that phrase, “It’s not you, it’s me.” This is the reality when it comes to relating to others in dating and love. The ego likes to defend itself by projecting all the bad onto the other and also, in the times of infatuation, all of the good onto the other. In this episode we explore how do you know if you really seeing the true person and how what you are seeing is really a reflection of your own mind. If you want more, visit our website at Debi and Dr. Rob for free downloads and classes.