Tag Archives: love and relationships

33: Same Heartache Different Person? How to Break Free of Old Love Patterns

Have you felt that the same broken record in your dating life? If you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships and experiencing the same heartbreaks with every person, we share solutions on how to break free and change your attraction to a person who is ready and willing for love.

EPISODE 33: Same Heartache, Different Person? How to Be Free of Old Love Patterns

We explain the animus (Inner Adam) and anima (Inner Eve) archetypes and how you relate to the opposite sex unconsciously. They represent the divine urge to connect and natural drive for love and relationships. This perfect image is clouded by your personal history and experience with your parents, men or women in your life. You learned how to relate to these humans and it impacts how you relate in your adult relationships.

Identify the pattern with men or women and that shows you how your Inner Adam is currently set up. You can change this archetype in your unconscious through visualizations and dreams and then change your relationships with men or women in a dramatic way.

Find out how you can free your mind so these ideas don’t stop you from opening up to a great love relationship.

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32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love

Do you know why most people have problems finding love? In 2014, the number of single people in the United States surpassed the married people. If you are wondering why you are not meeting the right people, we discuss three key issues people have in relationships.

Episode 32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love

Three main areas are where most people trip themselves up. First, they are stuck in the past. Are you still hooked on an old love or your ex-spouse? Do you feel you cannot move on? Second, do you have fears about the future? Will a relationship mess up your life? Will you choose the wrong person? Or, are you only focused on the short-term in the present? Are you in a holding pattern, procrastinating, feeling discouraged and you aren’t taking any action at all?

Find out how you can free your mind so these ideas don’t stop you from opening up to a great love relationship.

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27: Single Doesn’t Mean You Are Broken

Have you felt exhausted from self-help and trying to fix yourself because you are single? In this episode, we talk about the stigma of being single and how attitudes have shifted around marriage. We discuss the latest research on ideas around marriage and how it isn’t the key part of adulthood that it used to be.


In 1858, physician William Farr wrote “Marriage is a healthy estate. The single individual is more likely to be wrecked on his voyage than the lives joined in matrimony.” Times have changed and there are actually more single people in the U.S. right now than married people.

We explain how to change your own attitude around being single that is still embedded in your unconscious and influencing your life. Based on Carl Jung’s idea of individuation, there is a way to break free of the old patterns and have the love and relationship that you consciously want if you discover your true self.

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26-Can Meditation Improve Your Love Life?

Do you have a hard time meditating or finding time to meditate? Did you know that meditation can lead to more peace of mind and empathy in relationships? In this episode we talk about what meditation is, the benefits of meditation and how it can improve your dating and love life relationships.

Episode 26: Can Meditation Improve Your Love Life?

If you are the type who ruminates over decisions in dating, why a person didn’t call you back or if they will ask you out again and wish you could just stop your mind from telling you negative stories, this is the episode for you. Meditation can help you be more compassionate to yourself, regulate your emotions better so you feel less anxiety and more joy. Having a clear mind instead of noisy mind on dates allows you to be more present and connected to your potential partner. We discuss the latest research from Harvard University on meditation and its affect on your mind and health and discuss how these influence your relationship life so you can attract the love of your life and not be obsessing about it along the way.

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How the Right Relationship Can Make You Rich – Episode 24

What if finding the right person would lead you to more wealth? Do you want an equal partner who inspires your dreams and a relationship that can foster growth and expansion of your full self-expression? Do you want to align your purpose with a higher relationship?


In this episode, we explain how you can create the ultimate “power couple” relationship to grow together, play together and get wealthy together. Understand why it is important to find the right match so you can fully reach your dreams and be happy and fulfilled.

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Are you dating a narcissist? Ep. 23

Have you wondered if you keep attracting men or women who dismiss you and think you may have a pattern of meeting narcissistic people? Maybe you have read the “signs you are with a narcissist” from random dating advice blog and convinced yourself THAT is why your last relationship didn’t work out.


In this episode, learn how the term “narcissist” is overused and wildly misunderstood. Learn about the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder according to the DSM V and the difference in extremes between personality trait and a clinical disorder.

According to Jungian Psychology, there is much more to us than the persona and how the people we meet reflect a part of our shadow. If you have experienced relationships with someone you label as narcissistic, learn how that reflects your shadow and how to change the type of people that you get involved with.

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22: Psychology of Online Dating

Have you tried dating online without success? Do you find it emotionally-challenging to put yourself out there and fear rejection? In this episode, we talk about the psychology of online dating. If you are tired of dating tips and want to take a deep dive into your psyche to discover how to shift your results to find love, this is the show for you –

Episode 22: The Psychology of Online Dating.

We discuss the expectations that you bring to online dating and the energy you have when you are interacting with the website or app and how they affect your results. Learn ways to shift your mindset and understand yourself so you aren’t falling back into the same old patterns. There is a deeper psychology based on Carl Jung’s work and the concept of projection that can explain why you are not finding the right one. Understand how your ego is choosing your dates without your conscious knowledge and how to wake up and make conscious choices for true love.

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Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness

Do you feel stuck in creating love and success? Maybe you hit a wall or had a few setbacks and have doubts and fears about getting what you want. In this episode, we are going to review the essentials in life to have flow, happiness and be aligned with our higher purpose. Based on research of Seligman (who started the Positive Psychology movement), we discuss PERMA model. In order to have well-being in our life, we need five things:

  1. Positive Emotions
  2. Engagement
  3. Relationships
  4. Meaning
  5. Accomplishment

Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness

Learn how you can become more optimistic when going toward your goals, build healthier and closer relationships with others, and find yourself connected with what you are doing in heart and soul. How to get into the flow so you can feel happier and have the love and life you want. We discuss the health benefits of being happy and having meaningful relationships.

The key is well-being. We can accomplish things in life and gain material success or get into a committed relationship, but are they making us feel better or is the experience causing stress and unhappiness.

We review a list of questions for you to answer to see if you are in the flow.

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Ep 19 – Creating vs the Fixing Mindset in Love and Life

Are you looking for problems to solve in your life and blaming yourself when things don’t go your way? In personal development, you can often get caught up in the fixing mentality and lost in healing yourself. Listen to this episode to learn how to face adversity in your dating and relationships (and life in general) in a more creative way.

If you feel exhausted from self-help, this is a great conversation on how to approach creating your life in a new way that feels good. Understand how the ego is always looking for problems and takes everything personally when “bad things happen to good people.” Get in touch with the divine force within to see obstacles and the way to create more in our life.

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Ep. 15 – Get Your Love Life Back on Track

Have you fallen off the love train? You are not getting any response online or getting the wrong responses from men or women who are just not the right type for you. Maybe you are finding attractive people and feel hopeful only to be disappointed when they ghost you or mention they just aren’t ready to commit?

Why is this happening and how can you get on the love train for a lasting commitment? In this episode, we talk about the power of coaching and how whether you do it in a group or one-on-one can help you get your love life back on track. Learn about the different types of dating and relationships coaches and what solution is right for you.

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