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61: Why Being in the “Flow” Can Be Keeping You Stuck



Do you feel relieved when things are flowing in your life and then feel anxious when conflicts and challenges arise? Find out why “the flow” is over-rated and how it can be a misperception that is keeping you stuck in life.

EPISODE 61: Why Being in the “Flow” Can Be Keeping You Stuck

In this episode, we describe how your attachment to being in the flow can be keeping you from what you really want. Learn:

  • How some people think they are “in the flow” but are really stuck in ego auto-pilot going in circles, avoiding obstacles
  • Why we avoid conflict and challenges and seek “flow”
  • How to move out of stagnation and enter a state of regeneration by facing conflicts
  • The creative process is not just about being in the flow but embracing the light and dark aspects of ourselves and life
  • How breakups, layoffs, illness, money problems, dating dry-spells are showing us where we are stuck and how they can be a catalyst to get what we really want in life.

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59: Overcoming Fear and Living Your True Potential



If you have tried to change your life but still struggle with getting results, you may be trying to create with fear. You have unlimited potential but there are fears that interfere with your power.

59: Overcoming Fear and Living Your True Potential

In this episode, we help you understand how to create from your true nature.

  • Learn the four basic human fears (fear of loss of money, fear of loss of love, fear of loss of health, and fear of loss of life)
  • Why we falsely believe we are the ego and feel separate from our real self
  • The reason why you keep repeating patterns and seeing the same results
  • How to burst the bubble of misperception and start creating as if your success was inevitable

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52: Bridging the Gap to Your Desires



Have you ever felt like your dreams are too far away? Do you look toward the future and wonder when things are going to work out for you?

In this episode, we explain the true reality that creates your life. There is a GAP between where you are and where you want to be but most people think it is external. I have to do certain things, spend some time creating and then I can create the life I want. To create a successful business I have to put up a website, network, do some marketing, talk to people and get clients and then I can achieve success. Or, if you are searching for love you may think you have to put yourself out there, act correctly according to the rules and then you will be able to “manifest” that relationship. While it seems logical, this thinking is for ordinary people who see the world as a material universe. Listen to us explain the real nature of reality and how to bridge the GAP internally to create the life you want.

Episode 52: Bridging the Gap to Your Desires

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51: How to Realize Your Vision and the Mindset to Create the Life You Want



You have big dreams but may feel stuck along the journey to get to the next level. In this episode is going to be about how to realize your vision, how to have a vision in your mind and how you can make it a reality in your life, whether you want to have more success, whether you want to have better health or whether you want to find true love.

In this episode, we will discuss:

  • How everything in your life is created
  • How your mind is the creative center
  • How we look for external conditions to make us happy and how this is the root of dissatisfaction
  • How to take aligned action to realize your vision
  • How the unconscious is dictating what you are creating
  • How to make the unconscious conscious so your can direct your life
  • Using Visualization and why it works

Your results are not showing you what is possible, they are showing you what is in your mind. – Debi Maldonado

The Three Keys we share to create:

  • Clarity
  • Consistency
  • Passion (Intensity)

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47: Bonus Interview with Anouska Taylor Certified Vocal Instructor



From time to time we like to interview our clients and coach graduates to share their wisdom and experience with the audience. If you ever wondered if your voice can be better, speaking clearer, less strained and more powerful, you will love our interview with Anouska Taylor, a Certified Vocal Instructor.

If you have never experienced speaking voice training, you are missing out. Having someone help you use the vocal muscles in a powerful way can prevent strained speaking, losing your voice after long hours of talking and having a powerful presence.

47: Bonus Interview with Anouska Taylor Certified Vocal Instructor

Anouska Taylor is an accomplished singer / performer and certified vocal instructor with an international voice organisation.  Anouska has been teaching for over a decade and works with singers and speakers to discover the full potential of their voice.  Born and raised in the UK, Anouska has been performing and studying voice for over 20 years both in Melbourne (where she currently lives) and London.

You can discover more about her work and DOWNLOAD HER FREE VOICE CARE GUIDE at www.anouskataylor.com

 

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44: How the Ego Limits Your Success



Feeling stuck in your business but not sure what is happening? You try to think positive, you work hard but something isn’t clicking and you feel like you are behind and struggling to make your dream a reality. In this episode, we explain how the ego operates and how it influences your success and how to understand yourself so you can create the momentum in your business that you want.

EPISODE 44: How the Ego Limits Your Success

  • As a woman entrepreneur, is your ego limiting your success?
  • How does your family and early life influence your adult business relationships?
  • Understand the different layers of conditioning that you are exposed to throughout your life that formulate your personality and belief system
  • How your peers are a bigger influence than your family determining your expectations for success
  • How to transcend the ego so you can get the success you want.

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41: The Power of Your Two Minds in Success and Creating Your Life



Have you felt that something was working against you in getting the success or life you want? If you feel stuck and wonder what you can do to shift your thinking to create something new, this is a great episode for you.

EPISODE 41: The Power of Your Two Minds in Success and Creating Your Life

While most people split the mind into logic and creativity, we are talking about the ego-mind v. the wisdom mind. If you want the power to create from your full potential you need to learn how to hold the mind with the pure intention from the divine, wisdom mind. What does this mean for our everyday life and how do we incorporate the spiritual power in a practical way?

  • Embrace the challenge of daily mundane work to transcend the ego
  • Experience the wisdom mind to create a new reality
  • Realize that here and now is where you can start and where everything happens
  • Understand your mind in a new way to reclaim your personal power
  • Find out what it really means when you have hard times about your mind
  • How spirituality is not an escape from life but a way to really enjoy life

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36: Stress and the Single Woman



Do you feel stressed with everything you have to do in life? Are you a single mom trying to juggle career and dating? Do you find dating itself stressful? If you are a woman with a mission, you probably dealt with stress at some point in your journey and most likely still experiencing it.

36: Stress and the Single Woman

In this episode, we explain what stress is and how it affects the body and your health. We talk about your emotions and how they are the drivers of your body’s chemistry and stress response. Learn how your thoughts can shift your emotions and ultimately bring your body back into a healthy balance and reverse negative symptoms. Working with your emotions in a different way to bring you better results.

Get tips on how to reduce your stress today and how to create lasting health.

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31: Answering The 3 Big Questions in Life



Some people live their lives in quiet desperation, while others take the road less traveled and ask the big questions in life. In this episode we get into a deep philosophical conversation about the meaning of life, purpose and the three big questions everyone needs to answer:

  1. What do I do about Love?
  2. What do I do about Money?
  3. What do I do about God?

EPISODE 31: ANSWERING THE 3 BIG QUESTIONS IN LIFE

When you do personal development work, it may feel as though everyone else has it all figured out. They have the relationship you want, the money or success you want, the dream career, etc. You may even think that everyone is more enlightened than you. We discuss how no one gets out of life without answering these questions and how you can begin to answer them for yourself. Do you have the love you want? Are you happy with your career? Do you know your life’s purpose? What do you believe about your relationship to God or the universe? We probably awaken more questions than answers but the discussion is definitely one that brings everything into focus and makes you think.

Why take the path to answer these in a deep way? Is the journey to a greater life filled with more problems? We believe that finding these answers in ourselves is the greatest journey.

Quote by Rilke:

If we only arrange our life in accordance with the principle which tells us that we must always trust in the difficult, then what now appears to us as the most alien will become our most intimate and trusted experience. How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage.

– Rainer Marie Rilke


29: Understanding Emotional Triggers in Relationships



We are all emotional beings. Our feelings fluctuate through the day, every day like a carousel. Sometimes the feelings are good, sometimes numb and then there are those times when the emotions seem to burst through our logic and take us down a path to crazy town. These emotional triggers are not often played out externally, but more like an internal combustion leading to obsessive thinking, more stress and the desire to protect, defend or get even with the person who made the offense.

EPISODE 29: UNDERSTANDING EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS IN RELATIONSHIPS

In this episode, we discuss eight (8) common ego assumptions that are playing a role in the emotional trigger and allowing it to fester in your mind and body. They are:

  1. Taking things personally – It is my fault or they meant to hurt me
  2. Polarized Thinking – Everything is black or white – no compromise
  3. Mind Reading – Assuming what others are thinking about you or assuming they should know what you are thinking
  4. Labeling a Person (or Group) based on one action – “He did this to me or to someone else, so he’s a terrible person”
  5. Overgeneralization – “All Men/Women are Non-Commital”
  6. Catastrophizing – “I will always be single” or “It will always be like this”
  7. Minimizing – “It isn’t so bad” – tolerating bad behavior or settling for less
  8. Should Statements – “I should date” or “I should be nicer” or “I should not waste money”

We give you a quick exercise to work with these assumptions to free your mind from their trappings and get clear on what is really true. Your ego will use one or a combination of these assumptions when you are triggered. Learn your go-to story and be empowered to drop the story and see the world through new eyes.

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