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BONUS 42: Interview with Jungian Life Coach, Michelle Ton



In this bonus episode, we interview Michelle Ton, a recent student in our Jungian Life Coach training in our Academy of Jungian Spiritual Psychology. Michelle came to us looking for a great relationship, she found that and found her purpose. Hear Michelle’s Story and her insights as to how she made the changes in her life through Jungian Psychology Coaching.

BONUS INTERVIEW EPISODE: Michelle Ton – Jungian Life Coach – YourLimitlessJourney.com

Michelle lives in Sacramento with the love of her life and her story is an inspiration to anyone who thought they would never find love. She is excited to start her next adventure as a Jungian Life Coach to share what she learned and help others reach the goals they want in life in a powerful way.

 

 

 

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41: The Power of Your Two Minds in Success and Creating Your Life



Have you felt that something was working against you in getting the success or life you want? If you feel stuck and wonder what you can do to shift your thinking to create something new, this is a great episode for you.

EPISODE 41: The Power of Your Two Minds in Success and Creating Your Life

While most people split the mind into logic and creativity, we are talking about the ego-mind v. the wisdom mind. If you want the power to create from your full potential you need to learn how to hold the mind with the pure intention from the divine, wisdom mind. What does this mean for our everyday life and how do we incorporate the spiritual power in a practical way?

  • Embrace the challenge of daily mundane work to transcend the ego
  • Experience the wisdom mind to create a new reality
  • Realize that here and now is where you can start and where everything happens
  • Understand your mind in a new way to reclaim your personal power
  • Find out what it really means when you have hard times about your mind
  • How spirituality is not an escape from life but a way to really enjoy life

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34: Can You Choose The Person You Love?



Does love happen by accident or is it written in the stars? Mystics, poets, philosophers, scientists and therapists have been examining this question since the beginning of time. Why do we fall in love with certain people and can we direct our mind to fall in love with a specific person?

34: Can You Choose The Person You Love?

In this episode, we examine the idea of romantic chemistry and how it works. What part of you chooses to feel a certain way about another? Many people think it is a soul-mate thing, but what they are really experiencing is their early life patterns projected upon another individual. Understand how:

  • Unavailable people create a strong emotional draw for you
  • The people who look good on paper do not generate any romantic feelings
  • Your mind projects old patterns onto others and gets you caught up in a cycle of heartache.

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32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love



Do you know why most people have problems finding love? In 2014, the number of single people in the United States surpassed the married people. If you are wondering why you are not meeting the right people, we discuss three key issues people have in relationships.

Episode 32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love

Three main areas are where most people trip themselves up. First, they are stuck in the past. Are you still hooked on an old love or your ex-spouse? Do you feel you cannot move on? Second, do you have fears about the future? Will a relationship mess up your life? Will you choose the wrong person? Or, are you only focused on the short-term in the present? Are you in a holding pattern, procrastinating, feeling discouraged and you aren’t taking any action at all?

Find out how you can free your mind so these ideas don’t stop you from opening up to a great love relationship.

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30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love



Are you a prisoner of your relationship past? Do you pine over love lost? Are you stuck in the past, wishing for that old flame to return? In this episode, we discuss getting over past relationships and how to have closure to move on to real love.

EPISODE 30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love

We review the O.C.D. of looking at the past and how your ex is hooked into your emotions. The “Reverberating Circuits” of your brain are creating a false reality of what that love was and could be for you. Learn about love unrequited in pop culture movies such as “There’s Something About Mary” or “Sideways” and how the main characters found closure and finally resolution to move on.

We share some tips on how to let go, get beyond the past and reclaim your power to create a new love future with the love of your life.

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29: Understanding Emotional Triggers in Relationships



We are all emotional beings. Our feelings fluctuate through the day, every day like a carousel. Sometimes the feelings are good, sometimes numb and then there are those times when the emotions seem to burst through our logic and take us down a path to crazy town. These emotional triggers are not often played out externally, but more like an internal combustion leading to obsessive thinking, more stress and the desire to protect, defend or get even with the person who made the offense.

EPISODE 29: UNDERSTANDING EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS IN RELATIONSHIPS

In this episode, we discuss eight (8) common ego assumptions that are playing a role in the emotional trigger and allowing it to fester in your mind and body. They are:

  1. Taking things personally – It is my fault or they meant to hurt me
  2. Polarized Thinking – Everything is black or white – no compromise
  3. Mind Reading – Assuming what others are thinking about you or assuming they should know what you are thinking
  4. Labeling a Person (or Group) based on one action – “He did this to me or to someone else, so he’s a terrible person”
  5. Overgeneralization – “All Men/Women are Non-Commital”
  6. Catastrophizing – “I will always be single” or “It will always be like this”
  7. Minimizing – “It isn’t so bad” – tolerating bad behavior or settling for less
  8. Should Statements – “I should date” or “I should be nicer” or “I should not waste money”

We give you a quick exercise to work with these assumptions to free your mind from their trappings and get clear on what is really true. Your ego will use one or a combination of these assumptions when you are triggered. Learn your go-to story and be empowered to drop the story and see the world through new eyes.

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7. The Ego in Romantic Love and Relationships



What is the ego and how does it impact your dating and relationship life? There are many teachings on the ego in the self-help universe and many conflicting ideas. Based on Jung’s work, listen to how your ego was developed, why you shouldn’t get rid of it and how it can either help or hurt your chances in love. Join us for this interesting conversation about what we think of as the “mind” and the “ego” and what is driving your behaviors, thoughts, and feelings in your love life. How can you make your ego your ally in finding a great relationship and being happy together.

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