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41: The Power of Your Two Minds in Success and Creating Your Life



Have you felt that something was working against you in getting the success or life you want? If you feel stuck and wonder what you can do to shift your thinking to create something new, this is a great episode for you.

EPISODE 41: The Power of Your Two Minds in Success and Creating Your Life

While most people split the mind into logic and creativity, we are talking about the ego-mind v. the wisdom mind. If you want the power to create from your full potential you need to learn how to hold the mind with the pure intention from the divine, wisdom mind. What does this mean for our everyday life and how do we incorporate the spiritual power in a practical way?

  • Embrace the challenge of daily mundane work to transcend the ego
  • Experience the wisdom mind to create a new reality
  • Realize that here and now is where you can start and where everything happens
  • Understand your mind in a new way to reclaim your personal power
  • Find out what it really means when you have hard times about your mind
  • How spirituality is not an escape from life but a way to really enjoy life

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40: The Father Archetype and Success



To follow our episode on the Mother Archetype, explore this other aspect of the psyche that influences success in business and all areas of life. We help you uncover the mysteries of the Father Archetype.

Episode 40: The Father Archetype and Success

In this episode, you will find out:

  • What is an archetype according to Jungian Psychology?
  • What is the Father Archetype?
  • How the father archetype is influenced by your personal history of your relationship with your birth father or father figure in your life and how that also distorts your relationship with spirit.
  • How to create more success and attract more money by transforming your relationship with the Father Archetype.
  • What the Father Archetype has to do with the Animus (or Inner Adam) and romantic relationships.

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37: Lose Weight Before You Date? Facing Your Body Shadow



We get asked this question all the time…”Should I wait to lose weight before I start to date?” Women can be very self-critical about their bodies and feel their worth tied to their body size.

37: Lose Weight Before You Date? Facing Your Body Shadow

In Episode 37, Debi and Dr. Rob discuss the psychological impact of weight gain and dieting and how they relate to relationships and intimacy. We discuss how people feel they will be more confident after they lose weight or get to a certain size but then realize that they still have the same mindset minus a few pounds. We talk about the body being a part of the Persona in dating that dictates your attractiveness to potential mates. Just like we try to please to get someone to like us, are you trying to lose weight to get approval from others?

After working with hundreds of women on weight loss as a hypnotherapist, Debi shares how they use their weight as a defense against love. They use extra pounds to hide and avoid attention. They sabotage their diets and workout routines because they really don’t want to be in a relationship on a deep level. Once you identify the psychological core of why you are rejecting love, the weight will melt away and you will have a better relationship with food. This process is about facing your Body Shadow™ so you can free your mind from the past and create the body you love.

Debi shares her personal story of her own relationship with her body and food and how she transformed it. Be inspired to change your mind and then your body will follow.

Join us for our virtual retreat, Creating The Body Beautiful – Spiritual Psychology of Weight Loss without Dieting. A 6-part program to help you change your relationship with food and your body so you can be happier and healthier and ultimately in a great relationship with your ideal partner.

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36: Stress and the Single Woman



Do you feel stressed with everything you have to do in life? Are you a single mom trying to juggle career and dating? Do you find dating itself stressful? If you are a woman with a mission, you probably dealt with stress at some point in your journey and most likely still experiencing it.

36: Stress and the Single Woman

In this episode, we explain what stress is and how it affects the body and your health. We talk about your emotions and how they are the drivers of your body’s chemistry and stress response. Learn how your thoughts can shift your emotions and ultimately bring your body back into a healthy balance and reverse negative symptoms. Working with your emotions in a different way to bring you better results.

Get tips on how to reduce your stress today and how to create lasting health.

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34: Can You Choose The Person You Love?



Does love happen by accident or is it written in the stars? Mystics, poets, philosophers, scientists and therapists have been examining this question since the beginning of time. Why do we fall in love with certain people and can we direct our mind to fall in love with a specific person?

34: Can You Choose The Person You Love?

In this episode, we examine the idea of romantic chemistry and how it works. What part of you chooses to feel a certain way about another? Many people think it is a soul-mate thing, but what they are really experiencing is their early life patterns projected upon another individual. Understand how:

  • Unavailable people create a strong emotional draw for you
  • The people who look good on paper do not generate any romantic feelings
  • Your mind projects old patterns onto others and gets you caught up in a cycle of heartache.

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32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love



Do you know why most people have problems finding love? In 2014, the number of single people in the United States surpassed the married people. If you are wondering why you are not meeting the right people, we discuss three key issues people have in relationships.

Episode 32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love

Three main areas are where most people trip themselves up. First, they are stuck in the past. Are you still hooked on an old love or your ex-spouse? Do you feel you cannot move on? Second, do you have fears about the future? Will a relationship mess up your life? Will you choose the wrong person? Or, are you only focused on the short-term in the present? Are you in a holding pattern, procrastinating, feeling discouraged and you aren’t taking any action at all?

Find out how you can free your mind so these ideas don’t stop you from opening up to a great love relationship.

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30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love



Are you a prisoner of your relationship past? Do you pine over love lost? Are you stuck in the past, wishing for that old flame to return? In this episode, we discuss getting over past relationships and how to have closure to move on to real love.

EPISODE 30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love

We review the O.C.D. of looking at the past and how your ex is hooked into your emotions. The “Reverberating Circuits” of your brain are creating a false reality of what that love was and could be for you. Learn about love unrequited in pop culture movies such as “There’s Something About Mary” or “Sideways” and how the main characters found closure and finally resolution to move on.

We share some tips on how to let go, get beyond the past and reclaim your power to create a new love future with the love of your life.

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29: Understanding Emotional Triggers in Relationships



We are all emotional beings. Our feelings fluctuate through the day, every day like a carousel. Sometimes the feelings are good, sometimes numb and then there are those times when the emotions seem to burst through our logic and take us down a path to crazy town. These emotional triggers are not often played out externally, but more like an internal combustion leading to obsessive thinking, more stress and the desire to protect, defend or get even with the person who made the offense.

EPISODE 29: UNDERSTANDING EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS IN RELATIONSHIPS

In this episode, we discuss eight (8) common ego assumptions that are playing a role in the emotional trigger and allowing it to fester in your mind and body. They are:

  1. Taking things personally – It is my fault or they meant to hurt me
  2. Polarized Thinking – Everything is black or white – no compromise
  3. Mind Reading – Assuming what others are thinking about you or assuming they should know what you are thinking
  4. Labeling a Person (or Group) based on one action – “He did this to me or to someone else, so he’s a terrible person”
  5. Overgeneralization – “All Men/Women are Non-Commital”
  6. Catastrophizing – “I will always be single” or “It will always be like this”
  7. Minimizing – “It isn’t so bad” – tolerating bad behavior or settling for less
  8. Should Statements – “I should date” or “I should be nicer” or “I should not waste money”

We give you a quick exercise to work with these assumptions to free your mind from their trappings and get clear on what is really true. Your ego will use one or a combination of these assumptions when you are triggered. Learn your go-to story and be empowered to drop the story and see the world through new eyes.

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28: Breaking the Cycle of Just Enough in Love and Success



Are you making just enough money? Getting just enough dates who are just enough but not your ideal? In this episode, we explore how your mind is projecting “just enough” based on your past experiences and how it keeps you in a cycle of disappointment and even frustration.

EPISODE 28: Breaking the Cycle of Just Enough

Instead of thinking you are doing something wrong? What if the “just enough” cycle is pointing you in the right direction of finding your potential? Understand to work with your mind using higher spiritual knowledge of the true nature of reality so that you can break free and create the life you choose instead the life that is limited by the past. This episode will inspire you to live your dreams, go for what you really want and start to believe that anything is possible.

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27: Single Doesn’t Mean You Are Broken



Have you felt exhausted from self-help and trying to fix yourself because you are single? In this episode, we talk about the stigma of being single and how attitudes have shifted around marriage. We discuss the latest research on ideas around marriage and how it isn’t the key part of adulthood that it used to be.

EPISODE 27: SINGLE DOESN’T MEAN YOU ARE BROKEN

In 1858, physician William Farr wrote “Marriage is a healthy estate. The single individual is more likely to be wrecked on his voyage than the lives joined in matrimony.” Times have changed and there are actually more single people in the U.S. right now than married people.

We explain how to change your own attitude around being single that is still embedded in your unconscious and influencing your life. Based on Carl Jung’s idea of individuation, there is a way to break free of the old patterns and have the love and relationship that you consciously want if you discover your true self.

Want to change your love story? Check out Debi’s free video series “How to Reach your Full Love Potential and Find an Extraordinary Relationship” by going to attractreallove.com

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