Category Archives: Love & Relationships

30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love



Are you a prisoner of your relationship past? Do you pine over love lost? Are you stuck in the past, wishing for that old flame to return? In this episode, we discuss getting over past relationships and how to have closure to move on to real love.

EPISODE 30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love

We review the O.C.D. of looking at the past and how your ex is hooked into your emotions. The “Reverberating Circuits” of your brain are creating a false reality of what that love was and could be for you. Learn about love unrequited in pop culture movies such as “There’s Something About Mary” or “Sideways” and how the main characters found closure and finally resolution to move on.

We share some tips on how to let go, get beyond the past and reclaim your power to create a new love future with the love of your life.

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29: Understanding Emotional Triggers in Relationships



We are all emotional beings. Our feelings fluctuate through the day, every day like a carousel. Sometimes the feelings are good, sometimes numb and then there are those times when the emotions seem to burst through our logic and take us down a path to crazy town. These emotional triggers are not often played out externally, but more like an internal combustion leading to obsessive thinking, more stress and the desire to protect, defend or get even with the person who made the offense.

EPISODE 29: UNDERSTANDING EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS IN RELATIONSHIPS

In this episode, we discuss eight (8) common ego assumptions that are playing a role in the emotional trigger and allowing it to fester in your mind and body. They are:

  1. Taking things personally – It is my fault or they meant to hurt me
  2. Polarized Thinking – Everything is black or white – no compromise
  3. Mind Reading – Assuming what others are thinking about you or assuming they should know what you are thinking
  4. Labeling a Person (or Group) based on one action – “He did this to me or to someone else, so he’s a terrible person”
  5. Overgeneralization – “All Men/Women are Non-Commital”
  6. Catastrophizing – “I will always be single” or “It will always be like this”
  7. Minimizing – “It isn’t so bad” – tolerating bad behavior or settling for less
  8. Should Statements – “I should date” or “I should be nicer” or “I should not waste money”

We give you a quick exercise to work with these assumptions to free your mind from their trappings and get clear on what is really true. Your ego will use one or a combination of these assumptions when you are triggered. Learn your go-to story and be empowered to drop the story and see the world through new eyes.

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28: Breaking the Cycle of Just Enough in Love and Success



Are you making just enough money? Getting just enough dates who are just enough but not your ideal? In this episode, we explore how your mind is projecting “just enough” based on your past experiences and how it keeps you in a cycle of disappointment and even frustration.

EPISODE 28: Breaking the Cycle of Just Enough

Instead of thinking you are doing something wrong? What if the “just enough” cycle is pointing you in the right direction of finding your potential? Understand to work with your mind using higher spiritual knowledge of the true nature of reality so that you can break free and create the life you choose instead the life that is limited by the past. This episode will inspire you to live your dreams, go for what you really want and start to believe that anything is possible.

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27: Single Doesn’t Mean You Are Broken



Have you felt exhausted from self-help and trying to fix yourself because you are single? In this episode, we talk about the stigma of being single and how attitudes have shifted around marriage. We discuss the latest research on ideas around marriage and how it isn’t the key part of adulthood that it used to be.

EPISODE 27: SINGLE DOESN’T MEAN YOU ARE BROKEN

In 1858, physician William Farr wrote “Marriage is a healthy estate. The single individual is more likely to be wrecked on his voyage than the lives joined in matrimony.” Times have changed and there are actually more single people in the U.S. right now than married people.

We explain how to change your own attitude around being single that is still embedded in your unconscious and influencing your life. Based on Carl Jung’s idea of individuation, there is a way to break free of the old patterns and have the love and relationship that you consciously want if you discover your true self.

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26-Can Meditation Improve Your Love Life?



Do you have a hard time meditating or finding time to meditate? Did you know that meditation can lead to more peace of mind and empathy in relationships? In this episode we talk about what meditation is, the benefits of meditation and how it can improve your dating and love life relationships.

Episode 26: Can Meditation Improve Your Love Life?

If you are the type who ruminates over decisions in dating, why a person didn’t call you back or if they will ask you out again and wish you could just stop your mind from telling you negative stories, this is the episode for you. Meditation can help you be more compassionate to yourself, regulate your emotions better so you feel less anxiety and more joy. Having a clear mind instead of noisy mind on dates allows you to be more present and connected to your potential partner. We discuss the latest research from Harvard University on meditation and its affect on your mind and health and discuss how these influence your relationship life so you can attract the love of your life and not be obsessing about it along the way.

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25- Are you clairvoyant in love and relationships?



Do you have that sixth sense when it comes to dating and relating? Have you experienced premonitions that ultimately came true? Do you wish you could trust in your inner wisdom more so that you can avoid dead-end relationships or heartache?

EPISODE 25: Are you clairvoyant in love and relationships?

In this episode we explain what clairvoyance is and how you can tell if you are using intuition or if you are just responding to old fears in relationships.

Understand the interconnectedness between all of us and how on a deep level you are already communicating with your ideal partner. Based on Jung’s theory of the collective unconscious and the latest research in quantum physics, you can see that psychic ability is something we all have naturally and it isn’t so woo-woo.

Get some insight on how to increase your awareness of this incredible mind tool to help guide your relationships and your life.

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How the Right Relationship Can Make You Rich – Episode 24



What if finding the right person would lead you to more wealth? Do you want an equal partner who inspires your dreams and a relationship that can foster growth and expansion of your full self-expression? Do you want to align your purpose with a higher relationship?

EPISODE 24: HOW THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP CAN MAKE YOU RICH

In this episode, we explain how you can create the ultimate “power couple” relationship to grow together, play together and get wealthy together. Understand why it is important to find the right match so you can fully reach your dreams and be happy and fulfilled.

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Are you dating a narcissist? Ep. 23



Have you wondered if you keep attracting men or women who dismiss you and think you may have a pattern of meeting narcissistic people? Maybe you have read the “signs you are with a narcissist” from random dating advice blog and convinced yourself THAT is why your last relationship didn’t work out.

EPISODE 23: ARE YOU DATING A NARCISSIST?

In this episode, learn how the term “narcissist” is overused and wildly misunderstood. Learn about the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder according to the DSM V and the difference in extremes between personality trait and a clinical disorder.

According to Jungian Psychology, there is much more to us than the persona and how the people we meet reflect a part of our shadow. If you have experienced relationships with someone you label as narcissistic, learn how that reflects your shadow and how to change the type of people that you get involved with.

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22: Psychology of Online Dating



Have you tried dating online without success? Do you find it emotionally-challenging to put yourself out there and fear rejection? In this episode, we talk about the psychology of online dating. If you are tired of dating tips and want to take a deep dive into your psyche to discover how to shift your results to find love, this is the show for you –

Episode 22: The Psychology of Online Dating.

We discuss the expectations that you bring to online dating and the energy you have when you are interacting with the website or app and how they affect your results. Learn ways to shift your mindset and understand yourself so you aren’t falling back into the same old patterns. There is a deeper psychology based on Carl Jung’s work and the concept of projection that can explain why you are not finding the right one. Understand how your ego is choosing your dates without your conscious knowledge and how to wake up and make conscious choices for true love.

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Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness



Do you feel stuck in creating love and success? Maybe you hit a wall or had a few setbacks and have doubts and fears about getting what you want. In this episode, we are going to review the essentials in life to have flow, happiness and be aligned with our higher purpose. Based on research of Seligman (who started the Positive Psychology movement), we discuss PERMA model. In order to have well-being in our life, we need five things:

  1. Positive Emotions
  2. Engagement
  3. Relationships
  4. Meaning
  5. Accomplishment

Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness

Learn how you can become more optimistic when going toward your goals, build healthier and closer relationships with others, and find yourself connected with what you are doing in heart and soul. How to get into the flow so you can feel happier and have the love and life you want. We discuss the health benefits of being happy and having meaningful relationships.

The key is well-being. We can accomplish things in life and gain material success or get into a committed relationship, but are they making us feel better or is the experience causing stress and unhappiness.

We review a list of questions for you to answer to see if you are in the flow.

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