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39: Power of the Mother Archetype and Your Relationship with Life



In honor of Mother’s Day, we decided to dedicate this show to the Mother Archetype. In Jungian Psychology, the Mother Archetype is very powerful in how we relate to the world and feel accepted and nurtured by others and material things.

39: Power of the Mother Archetype and Your Relationship with Life

Do you feel the world is against you and unsupportive? Do you feel people are too needy and controlling? What was your relationship with the mother figures in your life? Were they critical and demanding or nurturing and loving?

In this episode we explain:

  • What is an archetype?
  • How does the Mother Archetype influence our life
  • How you can transform your relationship with life by understanding your relationship with your mother or other maternal figures and how the world treats you.

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BONUS 38: Interview with Joanne Newborn – Jungian Life Coach



Bonus Episode! From time to time, we are going to be interviewing some of our star clients who experienced our Creative Mind Process® so you can hear their success stories and be inspired to make changes in your life. This week we are featuring a soon-to-be-graduate of our Jungian Life Coach Training program in our Academy of Jungian Spiritual Psychology – Joanne Newborn

EPISODE 38: Be Inspired to Live Your Dreams – Interview with Jungian Life Coach – Joanne Newborn

Joanne Newborn – Joanne Newborn has been studying the Carl Jung Individuation Process since 2014 with Debi & Dr. Rob and is currently enrolled the Academy of Jungian Spiritual Psychology, on the road to becoming a Certified Jungian Life Coach by Fall 2018.  She has her MBA from Penn State University and her BA from Pace University.  She is also a graduate of The Neighborhood Playhouse School of Theatre. Currently, she is a Marketing Director with the World’s largest Spirits Company. Her Coaching business is focused on cultivating Leadership and is Newborn.Evolution.com –  Baby Steppin’ into your Power.

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37: Lose Weight Before You Date? Facing Your Body Shadow



We get asked this question all the time…”Should I wait to lose weight before I start to date?” Women can be very self-critical about their bodies and feel their worth tied to their body size.

37: Lose Weight Before You Date? Facing Your Body Shadow

In Episode 37, Debi and Dr. Rob discuss the psychological impact of weight gain and dieting and how they relate to relationships and intimacy. We discuss how people feel they will be more confident after they lose weight or get to a certain size but then realize that they still have the same mindset minus a few pounds. We talk about the body being a part of the Persona in dating that dictates your attractiveness to potential mates. Just like we try to please to get someone to like us, are you trying to lose weight to get approval from others?

After working with hundreds of women on weight loss as a hypnotherapist, Debi shares how they use their weight as a defense against love. They use extra pounds to hide and avoid attention. They sabotage their diets and workout routines because they really don’t want to be in a relationship on a deep level. Once you identify the psychological core of why you are rejecting love, the weight will melt away and you will have a better relationship with food. This process is about facing your Body Shadow™ so you can free your mind from the past and create the body you love.

Debi shares her personal story of her own relationship with her body and food and how she transformed it. Be inspired to change your mind and then your body will follow.

Join us for our virtual retreat, Creating The Body Beautiful – Spiritual Psychology of Weight Loss without Dieting. A 6-part program to help you change your relationship with food and your body so you can be happier and healthier and ultimately in a great relationship with your ideal partner.

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36: Stress and the Single Woman



Do you feel stressed with everything you have to do in life? Are you a single mom trying to juggle career and dating? Do you find dating itself stressful? If you are a woman with a mission, you probably dealt with stress at some point in your journey and most likely still experiencing it.

36: Stress and the Single Woman

In this episode, we explain what stress is and how it affects the body and your health. We talk about your emotions and how they are the drivers of your body’s chemistry and stress response. Learn how your thoughts can shift your emotions and ultimately bring your body back into a healthy balance and reverse negative symptoms. Working with your emotions in a different way to bring you better results.

Get tips on how to reduce your stress today and how to create lasting health.

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35: Can Loving Your Body Help You Find True Love?



In this episode, we tackle the topic of health and body image when it comes to self-love and relationships. Can changing your body image lead to attracting the love of your life?

35: Can Loving Your Body Help You Find True Love?

Learn how we rate ourselves by the numbers – age, weight, dress/jean size, and lab results. If we meet a certain metric, we will love ourselves more. Find out why dieting is like following dating tips when it comes to a healthy body image.

What is true beauty? Understand what type of physical traits in men/women turn you off in dating and what they say about you.

We discuss how the mindset and the source of health and body image is internal, not driven by external results. Your body is reflecting your “default mode” of conditioning through family, culture, peers, your mate and your environment. You can transcend the default and create a body that you love without ego-attachment.

We also mentioned our new Mindbody Psychology Training Retreat in August, 2018 in Santa Fe, New Mexico. If you are a helping professional and want to learn cutting-edge Mindbody techniques on helping people with wellness, happiness and reclaiming their healthy body.

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34: Can You Choose The Person You Love?



Does love happen by accident or is it written in the stars? Mystics, poets, philosophers, scientists and therapists have been examining this question since the beginning of time. Why do we fall in love with certain people and can we direct our mind to fall in love with a specific person?

34: Can You Choose The Person You Love?

In this episode, we examine the idea of romantic chemistry and how it works. What part of you chooses to feel a certain way about another? Many people think it is a soul-mate thing, but what they are really experiencing is their early life patterns projected upon another individual. Understand how:

  • Unavailable people create a strong emotional draw for you
  • The people who look good on paper do not generate any romantic feelings
  • Your mind projects old patterns onto others and gets you caught up in a cycle of heartache.

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33: Same Heartache Different Person? How to Break Free of Old Love Patterns



Have you felt that the same broken record in your dating life? If you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns in relationships and experiencing the same heartbreaks with every person, we share solutions on how to break free and change your attraction to a person who is ready and willing for love.

EPISODE 33: Same Heartache, Different Person? How to Be Free of Old Love Patterns

We explain the animus (Inner Adam) and anima (Inner Eve) archetypes and how you relate to the opposite sex unconsciously. They represent the divine urge to connect and natural drive for love and relationships. This perfect image is clouded by your personal history and experience with your parents, men or women in your life. You learned how to relate to these humans and it impacts how you relate in your adult relationships.

Identify the pattern with men or women and that shows you how your Inner Adam is currently set up. You can change this archetype in your unconscious through visualizations and dreams and then change your relationships with men or women in a dramatic way.

Find out how you can free your mind so these ideas don’t stop you from opening up to a great love relationship.

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32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love



Do you know why most people have problems finding love? In 2014, the number of single people in the United States surpassed the married people. If you are wondering why you are not meeting the right people, we discuss three key issues people have in relationships.

Episode 32: Why People Have Problems Finding Love

Three main areas are where most people trip themselves up. First, they are stuck in the past. Are you still hooked on an old love or your ex-spouse? Do you feel you cannot move on? Second, do you have fears about the future? Will a relationship mess up your life? Will you choose the wrong person? Or, are you only focused on the short-term in the present? Are you in a holding pattern, procrastinating, feeling discouraged and you aren’t taking any action at all?

Find out how you can free your mind so these ideas don’t stop you from opening up to a great love relationship.

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31: Answering The 3 Big Questions in Life



Some people live their lives in quiet desperation, while others take the road less traveled and ask the big questions in life. In this episode we get into a deep philosophical conversation about the meaning of life, purpose and the three big questions everyone needs to answer:

  1. What do I do about Love?
  2. What do I do about Money?
  3. What do I do about God?

EPISODE 31: ANSWERING THE 3 BIG QUESTIONS IN LIFE

When you do personal development work, it may feel as though everyone else has it all figured out. They have the relationship you want, the money or success you want, the dream career, etc. You may even think that everyone is more enlightened than you. We discuss how no one gets out of life without answering these questions and how you can begin to answer them for yourself. Do you have the love you want? Are you happy with your career? Do you know your life’s purpose? What do you believe about your relationship to God or the universe? We probably awaken more questions than answers but the discussion is definitely one that brings everything into focus and makes you think.

Why take the path to answer these in a deep way? Is the journey to a greater life filled with more problems? We believe that finding these answers in ourselves is the greatest journey.

Quote by Rilke:

If we only arrange our life in accordance with the principle which tells us that we must always trust in the difficult, then what now appears to us as the most alien will become our most intimate and trusted experience. How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage.

– Rainer Marie Rilke


30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love



Are you a prisoner of your relationship past? Do you pine over love lost? Are you stuck in the past, wishing for that old flame to return? In this episode, we discuss getting over past relationships and how to have closure to move on to real love.

EPISODE 30: Getting Over Your Ex and Moving On To Real Love

We review the O.C.D. of looking at the past and how your ex is hooked into your emotions. The “Reverberating Circuits” of your brain are creating a false reality of what that love was and could be for you. Learn about love unrequited in pop culture movies such as “There’s Something About Mary” or “Sideways” and how the main characters found closure and finally resolution to move on.

We share some tips on how to let go, get beyond the past and reclaim your power to create a new love future with the love of your life.

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