Ep 11: Attract Love from Desire to Destiny



In this episode, we talk about why you have the best intentions for finding a great relationship, but most times get the opposite result. How do you hold your mind to attract a great love that lasts?

Learn about the eastern wisdom of The Upanishads that explains your Deepest Driving Desire. Why your actions and intentions are NOT the keys to finding the love you want but getting to the unconscious (deepest) desire to change your love destiny.

“You are your deepest driving desire. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”

Learn how your intentions and actions are not responsible for your results in life. Understand the unconscious drivers in relationships and creating the life you want.

Get free webinar How to Rewire Your Heart for Love at Debi and Dr. Rob’s official website here.


Ep. 10: 3 Steps to Attaining Higher Love



Are you looking for love purely for survival and avoid being alone or are you seeking a higher love? In this episode, we discuss Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and how people approach relationships from lower needs and desires to cultivating a more evolved, conscious relationship.

The three levels of self-actualization are:

  1. Biological Needs
  2. Social Needs
  3. Need for Self-Actualization

We discuss how each person has the potential to become their true self and find a love who matches your highest ideal. Enjoy the show!

If you would like to find out more, visit us at DebiandRob.com and get a free webinar “How to Rewire Your Heart for Love”

 


Ep 9: Learned Optimism When It Comes to Love



Are you the glass half-full type of person or half-empty when it comes to your perception of love and life? Do you consider yourself a pessimist or optimist? Do you find that it is hard to stay positive and think positive thoughts when all of your results are showing you reasons to be discouraged?

Don’t get caught up in the negative feedback loop of “here we go again” in dating and relationships. This episode will explain how you can move from powerlessness (“Learned Helplessness”) to Learned Optimism in approaching your love life with a fresh sense of hope and inspiration.

Don’t forget to download our free class called How to Rewire Your Heart for Love, by visiting our official website at DebiandRob.com 


8: How do you know if he or she is “the one” when dating?



Is he or she the “one” when dating? How do you know if you met your soulmate or if you are mistakenly falling for a faux-mate? In this episode we talk about what chemistry is and the feelings you have with another person. What does it mean when you feel the spark? Find out how to trust whether you have found real love or it is just your old patterns kicking in. Learn the difference between unconscious chemistry and Conscious Chemistry®. Interesting conversation about RESONANCE and attraction.

Why do you have chemistry with someone who isn’t a good match? Those partners who have all the right things but you don’t feel any chemistry toward them, what is really happening here? Should you continue to date someone hoping your feelings will change. Get real relationship advice based on Jungian psychology, no fluff or magical thinking.

Get a free class on How to Rewire Your Heart For Love at our website, discover how you can shift your higher mind to retrain your brain to rewire your heart for true love.


7. The Ego in Romantic Love and Relationships



What is the ego and how does it impact your dating and relationship life? There are many teachings on the ego in the self-help universe and many conflicting ideas. Based on Jung’s work, listen to how your ego was developed, why you shouldn’t get rid of it and how it can either help or hurt your chances in love. Join us for this interesting conversation about what we think of as the “mind” and the “ego” and what is driving your behaviors, thoughts, and feelings in your love life. How can you make your ego your ally in finding a great relationship and being happy together.

For more information about our work, visit us at DebiandRob.com and get a free webinar on how to rewire your heart for love.


6: Bonding and Attachment in Relationships



What makes you connect to some people and not others? Why do some relationships fizzle out? Learn the psychology of bonding and attachment styles in relationships. Get a closer look on how you learned how to bond with others based on your early life experience and how your family taught you to interact in intimate relationships. Discover if you are insecure or secure when you are dating so you can recognize the pattern and begin to change it. This doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with you and it doesn’t mean that you are limited to these styles. We believe you have unlimited potential to create the love relationship you really want and find a love that lasts. If you want more, visit our website at Debi and Dr. Rob for free downloads and classes.


5: Psychology of Physical Attraction



Have you ever asked yourself, “Am I going to be attracted to the man (or woman) I am going to marry?” You see your friends get married and you may wonder if you have to settle for someone you are just not physically attracted to just to be with someone. In this episode we explore the science and psychology of physical attraction from biological impulses to cultural conditioning. Tune in to discover how physical attraction plays a role in finding a lasting relationship. If you want more, visit our website at Debi and Dr. Rob for free downloads and classes.


4: Creating a Love Mindset – Is positive thinking enough?



Everyone is talking about the “law of attraction” and using positive thinking to attract love in your life. In this episode, we discuss how to have the right mindset for love and it is much more than positive thinking and putting a vision board together. We go into a deeper psychology of the mind and how you can take your mindset of love to a more powerful level. If you want more, visit our website at Debi and Dr. Rob for free downloads and classes.


3: The Love Shadow – The Hidden Influencer in Your Love Life



Have you ever wondered why you want a committed relationship, but keep attracting the opposite? In this episode, we discuss the Love Shadow, in Jungian Psychology, it is the unconscious part of you that drives your relationship patterns. If you want to see your Love Shadow, we will give you tips on how to find it so it can no longer prevent you from having the type of love you want. If you want more, visit our website at Debi and Dr. Rob for free downloads and classes.


2: Projection in Dating and Relationships



You’ve heard that phrase, “It’s not you, it’s me.” This is the reality when it comes to relating to others in dating and love. The ego likes to defend itself by projecting all the bad onto the other and also, in the times of infatuation, all of the good onto the other. In this episode we explore how do you know if you really seeing the true person and how what you are seeing is really a reflection of your own mind. If you want more, visit our website at Debi and Dr. Rob for free downloads and classes.